Many believe in unattainable concepts where some will couple unrealistic sexuality with characteristics pertaining to peace. The reality is that one must seek the characteristics of peace in order to venture into realms of pleasure. Most will place pleasure over peace or they may place pleasure without seeking peace.
Those that are attracted to the concepts of pleasure must realize that those that whose primary focus is to display pleasure will most likely not display the levels of maturity that are associated with peace. Therefore if ones primary focus is pleasure instead of peace the likelihood of that person displaying characteristics of responsibility, accountability and great work ethic are extremely low. pleasure is temporary while peace is eternal.
What we encourage people to do is to seek peace first and then develop pleasure through a formation of a strong relationship. The instinctual primitive nature that guides us into making choices such as pleasure over peace is due to humanity primarily living for a long periods of time where our ancestors lived shorter life spans. Therefore pleasure was the primary concept but now that we live longer life spans we need to change our approach to accommodate the changes even if they counter our primitive nature.
The focus should be peace over pleasure There is plenty of time to engage in pleasure but most do not dedicate enough time to peace.
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